If humans were computers, our dominant traits would be the operating system that is embedded and hard-coded in our minds. These deeply ingrained behaviors run on autopilot, driving our every action without conscious thought. Like breathing or blinking, we can actively choose to control our actions with enough concentration. However, most of the time, our recurring behaviors seem to be driven by our subconscious, functioning effortlessly and instinctively.

Instinct is a marvelous thing. It can
neither be explained nor ignored.

Agatha Christie

Dominant traits are often mistaken as strengths in most other personality systems. But here in Personality Ninja, we hold a different view. To us, traits are just traits, shaped by the wiring of our cognitive functions. Whether a trait is good or bad largely depends on the way it is used. As such, these traits can either be the source of one's greatest strengths, or the cause of their biggest downfall.

Naturally, we will hone our dominant traits, refining them into our super strengths. However, if we are not careful, there is a chance that we may push our dominant traits into overdrive, manifesting them in very unhealthy ways. In the end, our dominant traits are our natural tendencies and nothing more. The key to harnessing them effectively lies in knowing when, where, and how to use them.

Guardians feel a sense of responsibility to support and nurture others. They are the ones who people can always count on in times of need. In their communities, Guardians uplift and motivate everyone as
they work towards a common goal. Committed to a life of service, Guardians never ask what others can do for them, but instead
what they can do for others.

However, due to their altruistic nature, Guardians often struggle to say no. The fear of upsetting people may be deeply ingrained in their minds, causing them to feel obligated to accept every favor asked of them. As a result, they may take on more than they can handle. But even Guardians have their limits, and when they crack, they will no longer be able to help anyone in the end.

When Guardians spread themselves too thin, they will be left feeling empty and exhausted. Constant demands may overwhelm them as they try to keep up with everything. Over time, a sense of negativity will build up, leading them straight to a burnout. Although they truly want to serve others, Guardians must also remember to take care of themselves so that they can continue to support those around them.

Conflicts are inevitable, and Guardians are naturals at resolving them. They make excellent mediators as they can easily empathize with others and understand their perspectives. By putting themselves in other people's shoes, Guardians can address everyone's concerns fairly. Ultimately, any issue can be resolved through a shared understanding.

However, Guardians are often too careful with their words, fearing that they might upset the harmony. As a result, they tend to sugar-coat the truth in order to achieve a painless resolution, avoiding hurtful details as much as possible. What Guardians fail to realize is that problems solved with feel-good words are like ticking time bombs, waiting to explode into bigger issues in the future.

At first glance, Guardians who remain neutral may seem supportive of both sides. However, the issue lies in their lack of personal stance. Without a clear moral compass, Guardians may base their idea of right and wrong on the groups they associate with, instead of their inner principles. Therefore, it is important for Guardians to remember that if they stand for nothing, they will fall for anything.

Ever-determined, Guardians strive for success in areas highly valued by society. Through their dedication and effort, they achieve their goals, earning the respect and admiration of many. Step by step, they build upon their previous accomplishments, compounding small achievements into significant successes. Over time, their unwavering consistency paves a reliable path to success, earning Guardians the reputation of being inspirational role models.

Often wanting a good impression, Guardians may live their entire lives trying to meet expectations. To maintain a picture-perfect image, they stick closely to norms and are careful not to step out of line. The mere thought of appearing weird or unusual to others can plague Guardians with the fear of being ridiculed. Unfortunately, a conservative mindset can give Guardians the reputation of being close-minded and ignorant of anything and everything outside their own bubble.

Despite receiving praise and recognition, Guardians may still feel lost and unfulfilled within. To their dismay, happiness and fulfillment cannot be found solely through society's definition of success—money, status, and fame. These achievements pale in comparison to the infinite array of life paths available to them. As such, Guardians must have the courage to step out of the norm and forge their own path towards their unique version of success.

As natural mediators, Guardians are often clear and tactful with their words. They are often able to get their point across while being considerate of people's feelings. When they disagree, they express their concerns thoughtfully, making it easier for others to accept their perspectives. As such, Guardians have the potential to become compassionate teachers, guiding others patiently, step by step.

Although the advice provided by Guardians may sound good, at times it can be shallow and merely a collection of beautiful words. This is because they tend to give suggestions based on what they hear from others, even when they don't fully understand it themselves. Without a thorough understanding of their teachings, Guardians can't truly bring change to people's lives as their words lack depth and meaning.

When Guardians are persistent with their advice, they may come off as naggy and annoying. While they intend to care for others, they risk turning people off with their approach. Guardians need to keep in mind that their advice is not always right, and their insistence will ultimately cause others to stop listening altogether. It is important for Guardians to find a balance between offering guidance and allowing others to make their own decisions.

To wrap it up, dominant traits are neither our strengths nor are they our weaknesses. They are simply traits we tend to exhibit naturally in our daily lives without much realization.

The biggest reminder here is this: a trait is a trait. It is a unique characteristic of an archetype, each carrying its own pros and cons. With that understanding, let us now venture into the next set of traits that we do more consciously—our supportive traits.

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Supportive Traits [Guardian]